Not Sleeping From Stress? Try This!

Not Sleeping From Stress? Try This!

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If you’re not sleeping from stress raise your hand!

You are NOT alone.

If you’ve ever been very stressed, then you’ll know that this can make it very difficult to get to sleep.

When we’re very stressed we lie awake all night?

Doing what?

Listening to our hearts thudding in our chest and getting even more stressed that we’re not able to drift off to sleep.

This is what makes the situation so bad!

We know that the less we sleep, the worse the stress is going to seem tomorrow.

Ironically, we’ll experience more of the very same stress that is keeping us awake!

So what can you do to overcome that stress and just drift off?

Not Sleeping From Stress? Get In The Right Frame of Mindnot sleeping from stress

The key thing to remember here is 2 things.

  1. You can’t ‘force’ yourself to overcome stress. 
  2. You can’t ‘force’ yourself to relax.

The whole idea of forcing yourself to relax is actually contradictory.

This is where many people fall short.

In trying to make ourselves fall asleep we will often start tossing and turning and even getting frustrated and angry that we aren’t sleeping.

This only increases our stress more, increases our heart rate more and continues the vicious cycle.

If you have ever looked at your alarm clock at 4am in the morning and felt like you’re the only person awake, then you’ll know this well.

If you are not sleeping from stress, I can help you.

I’ve been there.

Start by downloading my FREE guide:  50 simple stress management activities to start removing stress from your life.

Sleeping Problems From Stress? It’s Time To Break The Cycle!

So how do you break this cycle?

The solution is to stop forcing yourself to sleep and to instead just let it happen naturally.

Specifically, this means you should remove the pressure of ‘having’ to fall to sleep. In fact, remove the objective completely.

So when you go to bed, you’re not going to bed in order to sleep any more.

Instead, recognize that simply relaxing and resting can actually be very good for you too and allow yourself to do this.

Focus on how nice it is to just lie back and not need to do anything.

Remember that even if you only do that, you’ll still be relaxing and rejuvenating to some degree.

The irony is that as soon as you start enjoying being in bed and as soon as you take away the ‘need’ to fall asleep, you will almost always drift off right away.

And not only will this improve your ability to get to sleep but it will also enhance your quality of sleep as you’ll be much more restful.

So are you ready to sleep like a baby tonight and every night?

Try this delicious tea to reduce stress, relax the body and promote sleep.

Sweet dreams!


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Darlene Berkel

Stress Resilience & Life Transitions Coach Darlene is passionate about helping ambitious women 40+ conquer chronic stress and overcome whatever life throws at them. Combining personal experience, proven stress management activities and divine guidance, Darlene delivers top-tier products and services that have allowed committed women to face their challenges without losing steam.

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  1. Thanks for the tips! I have suffered from waking up early due to stress for many years. I got a FitBit and really paid attention to sleep patterns and it has helped tremendously.

    1. Good for you Jennifer! Exercise is one of the best ways to relieve stress and induce restful sleep. I am gong to have to check out a fitbit. I read that its really comfortable to wear, even to bed to help monitor sleep patterns. Sounds like a wonderful gadget.

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